To celebrate the 16 Days of Activism against Against Gender-Based Violence, on the 7th of December 2019, Ubuma Leadership hosted the Men’s Imbizo at Constitution Hill in Johannesburg which highlighted on the multiple manifestations of patriarchy and toxic masculinity in all spaces of our society. The Imbizo also unpacked the false notions and narratives which we associate to safety as it relates to particular spaces or particular image-bearing men in society. The Men’s Imbizo seeks to transition from raising awareness to setting a new standard of accountability for how men behave. The Men’s Imbizo was co-founded by the Graça Machel Trust’s Research Associate, Mpilo Shabangu and Mhike Mpanya from Ubuma Leadership, in a bid to ensure that there are gender inclusive conversations happening to address the scourge of gender based violence in South Africa. Below are some of their thoughts on this topical issue:
Political emancipation. Economic emancipation. Social Emancipation. Emancipation is a concept so familiar and talked about that the word almost seems indigenous to our mother tongues. The focus of the first generation of African emancipators was the dismantling of the oppression of the system; the system of colonialism and apartheid. However, these systems did not operate in isolation these systems created and influenced spaces where the oppression imposed by the system was infiltrated into daily life. The same is true for patriarchy. Therefore, part of dismantling the system of patriarchy requires a total overhaul of the spaces in which its manifestations are commonplace.
One of the most dominating misconceptions surrounding patriarchy and its spaces of operation is the idea that patriarchy and toxic masculinity is confined to certain socio-economic stratum. The misnomer that men and women who have migrated from poverty to relative prosperity are insulated from the evils of patriarchy by the spaces they navigate. An accompanying lie is that patriarchy and female oppression are endemic to certain cultural and religious spaces and that as urbanization increases patriarchy and its various forms of expression must certainly decrease. This is false. Cognizant of the fact that gender-based violence cases are under-reported; the available evidence still points to the reality that gender-based violence knows no borders.
Whether it is in South Africa, where one in five women experience physical violence, or in the world at large where gender-based violence is structurally embedded in culture and condoned by society. A study published by in The Lancet estimated that 7.2 percent of women worldwide experienced non–partner sexual violence. Whilst globally, as much as 35% of women have experienced either physical and/or sexual intimate partner violence. Data from WomanStat project provides evidence for high rates of sexual violence in conflict zones in Africa, and the Middle East, but also in Mexico, Brazil, South Africa and India – countries which are not currently afflicted by war. The one commonality in these differing global spaces is men. Men are central to the crimes of femicide and gender-based violence – and therefore men must be central to the solution.
The South African Constitution envisions a society free from patriarchy and sexism. The Constitution establishes non-sexism as one of the nation’s founding values. 25 years later the nation has not translated this vision into a reality – but there is hope. The backdrop and venue for the Men’s Imbizo was Constitution Hill because it was a military fort, a concentration camp, a prison and now a shrine for Human Rights and home to the court that serves as custodian of the Constitution. It stands testament to the possibility for spaces to change and beyond that the possibility for society to change. The Men’s Imbizo hopes to be an agent of such change.